N̤̮O̤̮ K̤̮N̤̮O̤̮W̤̮L̤̮E̤̮D̤̮G̤̮E̤̮ I̤̮S̤̮ A̤̮ W̤̮A̤̮S̤̮T̤̮E̤̮
(𝒜𝒸𝒸ℴ𝓂𝓅𝓁𝒾𝓈𝒽𝒾𝓃ℊ 𝒹ℯ𝓈𝒾𝓇ℯ𝒹 ℊℴ𝒶𝓁𝓈 𝒷𝓎 𝒶𝒸𝒸ℯ𝓅𝓉𝒾𝓃ℊ ℴ𝓃ℯ 𝓁ℴ𝓃ℊ 𝓉𝒾𝓂ℯ 𝓀𝓃ℴ𝓌𝓁ℯ𝒹ℊℯ
If I was asked about 10years ago how the knowledge I acquired, if it’s gonna be valuable’ I will suggest No!
Because I was only under the cover of people, circumstance of environment and location, assuming I’d stopped doing those things I once did back then, I won’t be accountable for any story to share with you today.
Mrs. Patricia Gabriel, normally called Anty patty; in blessed memory of her beloved husband Mr. Gabriel Effiong, hailing from the East region;from the giant of African.
Their cultural background and festivals, as a profound ceremonial event that different people from different ethnic groups loves to attend, for its celebration of love and social visibility and gratitude to God.
In these events you get to be entertained with the best of creative arts 🎭, dance parade with mask,it’s a relative gathering where you will wish it doesn’t ends.
The love of these events makes people from the Middle East and federal capitals of different continent. The Calabar are known for remaking events.
Mrs. patty in their stay together with her husband suffered so many complications health wise, as a short sighted and traumatic patient that was diagnosed of fibromyalgia syndrome and has a way she suffered abnormal walking steps, these kept on coming, but she still never gave up ‘on some of her gifting and talents
Things like writing good composed songs,An expert in the catering world so obsessed when she is mixing her dough, because it comes out delicious and yummy 😋, a sound counselor, philanthropist that would admire you irrespective of where you come from, love God so dearly above all beautiful 🤩 and gorgeous
As day passes by Anty patty sits in her room daily crying so bitterly to God, for not bearing a child. I got to know these her silent moves indoors when one certain time I was sent by her on an errand, when I was coming i overhead her crying with a loud voice in her closet her words hit me emotional 😭, it has been a painful experience for her and the family. I became more fond of her and never a day passes by I don’t check up on her, she felt comfortable around me because I was able to connect more with her, I had a listening 👂 ears anytime she wants to speak or pour outs her heart.
B̲̅E̲̅I̲̅N̲̅G̲̅ M̲̅Y̲̅ S̲̅E̲̅LF
As I grow I know how I faced challenges and trials from family, loved ones and relatives, some persons had rejection and discrimination for her health conditions and never wanted to come close to her.
There were times issues of Anty patty rings in our house, telling me to get myself off from her considering we weren’t related just someone I got acquainted too
But it I still go to help her, because it wasn’t me, I have love to cater for people, these continues to rise in our home 🏡 some friends won’t want to be close to me because often times take Anty patty to the bathroom. Even though I was not comfortable with the way things were going but I never for once made her feel less of who God says she is, there are times when it was convenient for both of us
W̲̅h̲̅e̲̅n̲̅ G̲̅r̲̅a̲̅c̲̅e̲̅ F̲̅o̲̅u̲̅n̲̅d̲̅ M̲̅e̲̅/ f̲̅a̲̅v̲̅o̲̅r̲̅ k̲̅e̲̅e̲̅p̲̅ k̲̅n̲̅o̲̅c̲̅k̲̅o̲̅n̲̅g̲̅ a̲̅t̲̅ m̲̅y̲̅ d̲̅o̲̅o̲̅r̲̅
The good days when I was privileged to stay with her in the kitchen i learnt her top secrets of how she makes her pastry 🥮 excellent she does it very unique. She never gave room for indiscipline, Mrs patty always tells me whenever am in the kitchen with her, she will be like Michelle ( Mitchy) plethora ideas 💡 for improvement is always available if we decide to think and work with that : I’d never understood what that piece of advice she gave until now, and it has never left my mind, I had cravings for self personal development and betterment of my career.
As young I was then, I could remember my first attempt at the age of 9, already cooking for my family with the help of someone helping us at home. I got positive feedback and it’s gave me more zeal to my desire to attain more learning experience on how to become a better cook, and in other dimensions too as a lady, today i can boast of my income of doing such an outstanding pastry 🥮,when you taste it you would cry for more.
People feedbacks has been emotional to me, if i remember Anty patty I see her deserving these amazing feedbacks from customers.
If I’d never focused on being myself at all times, I wouldn’t have done better
My first attempt to making pastries or wasn’t as good though, but my consistency in actually considering to one day becoming the best version of myself
I feel fulfilled to be part of the mew great things that has come my way. Always remember to appreciate every moment with people it may sound occasional but it’s not ordinary. “If only I did it” it’s not for people that wants to dare more, it’s flared away with regrets and I won’t want that for any of us.
Consider making another idea 💡 out of these my life story and make sue you share them with me when you do so! No knowledge is a waste let’s make these world 🌎 a better one.